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Don't pretend someone has not existed at all,
That hurts more than anything,
To not acknowledge the existence of someone so important is a slap in the face.

I did not forget they died,
You are not reminding me,
I live with it every moment of every day,
This is my life,
These are my memories.

For you to ignore that they have died is worse than a punch in the face,
The anger I feel towards you is insurmountable.

I cannot put a lid on it,
I am in turmoil,
I am incensed anyone should dare to forget they have died,
Someone I loved so dearly has gone,
Yet nobody says anything at all.

Acknowledge my loss,
Make sure I know you know,
For then I know you celebrate their life too.

By giving me your condolences you show me their life meant something,
Respect is easily shown,
Therefore, I know your life means something to me.

Thank you for acknowledging my loss,
That means the most,
For then I know their death still means something,
Then I know I can go on,

There can be growth.

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